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Second chance of love

One of the heartbreaking experience of a woman is when the man they choose to love and think that will always be there for her through thick and thin will leave her without any words.  They are like, go with the wind as they say.  Although they have reasons for leaving the girl, it is not good to leave just like that.  No matter how hurtful it is, every girl deserves an explanation.  And for sure will accept and respect your decision.  Because you cannot force a man to love you back when he is fallen for somebody else, or just being the coward to face the current situation.

I am saying this because of my friend.  The guy she chooses to love just disappeared after she told him that she is expecting.  I must say he is afraid to face the responsibility of their actions.  He opted to leave than to be with my friend.  She was devastated but should accept it and continue moving on because she is going to be a mother.  It is the very difficult situation, but with the help of her family she has moved on and stood up from falling.

However, the guy came back after five (5) years and is asking for a second chance of love.  Will she accept him?  I do not know what to answer to her when she asked me of my opinion.  It is her life and it is her happiness.  Everyone deserves a second chance but depends on the situation.  It is really up to her if she will give him a second chance or not.  I do hope that my friend will decide correctly to avoid being hurt again.

If I were to ask you, what should my friend do?

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How To Get A Car Loan If Your Credit Is Bad

Everyone needs a car but sometimes it can be difficult if your credit is bad or non-existent. Fortunately, there are options for people whose credit may not be the best. Here is how to go about getting a car loan when you have bad credit.

1. The first thing to do is to order your credit report. This will give you a good idea as to where your credit stands. The lower your credit score, the higher the interest will be on any loan you will eventually receive.

2. If you have a checking or savings account, ask your bank first before approaching other lenders. An actual bank or credit union will give you may favorable terms than other lenders will.

3. If the bank turns you down, ask your insurance company. Some insurance companies offer their customers financing options when purchasing new or used vehicles.

4. If neither of these options work, it is time to shop for loans from companies who cater to people with very poor credit. Be honest with yourself and know that you will be paying a much higher interest rate than you would if you have good or great credit. One key thing to remember is to not accept the first loan that is offered. It is best to shop around to see what the best deal that can be had is.

5. Once a loan provider is found, they will want to know the size of the down payment that can be made is. The size of the down payment may also affect the interest rate of the loan, but not always.

6. One thing that can be done to secure more favorable car loans for people with bad credit is to have a close relative co-sign the loan for you. What this does is ensure that the other person, the co-signer, will pay back the loan if the first signer, you, defaults on the loan.

By following these easy steps, you will be on your way to getting a car loan and driving away with your very own vehicle.

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The birth of the new identity

Xander Ford is the name that is hot news in the country lately.  I have read so many comments, good and bad about him.  I am wondering if he is a celebrity because his name is not familiar to me.  Even my nieces are talking about him, his latest transformation.  I am so curious about him so I google it online.  His real name is Marlou Arizala.  He grew up being bullied by many.  Its affected his confidence and his life.  When the opportunity knocks on him to have surgery for free, he grabbed the chance.  To him, the surgery is the only way for him to look good so that people will look at him differently and treat him good.

The surgery is successful and the new identity of Marlou has been made.  He is now the famous Xander Ford.  He has a major transformation, and I must say he looks far beyond his look before.  People, especially girls are talking about him.  Some are happy with his transformation and congratulate him but the bashers and bad comments are still there.  He is like an instant celebrity in the country.  He is the most talked person in the country lately.  He has more confidence now and faces people with the happy face.  I do hope with all the transformation, people will treat him good and accepts his decision.  The bad thing about his transformation is that he said that Marlou is dead.  Too bad, but it is his life.  Hopefully, he will not regret it all.

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Writing an essay about abortion

A friend of mine sends me a message asking me if I could help her on her school report.  Their teacher gave them the assignment to write on what is their stand on abortion.  And they are going to the debate it on class.  Scared, that is what she told me.  So, she is asking me if I could help her write the essay for her and explain it to her.  I should make it simple for her to express her views on the class in an easy way.  It is not an easy topic I must say because there are advantages and disadvantages on abortion.  And there are reasons why people opted to commit abortion.  Also, I have to cite an example for her to use in their debate.

 I did not promise her to give a good essay but told her to write the best I can do to help her.  Since she got pregnant at a very young age, I made her story the example on the essay.  I am glad that she likes the essay I made, and like my idea of sharing her life story.  The struggle she has overcome when she got pregnant at a young age.  I am glad that I can help a friend and happy to hear the good feedback on my writing.  It has been a while since I wrote an essay.

Writing an essay about abortion is a good thing because I learned things about abortion, why women do commit abortion, reasons of aborting the child, the kinds of abortion and the likes.  It is challenging for me to give the best essay because in that way, I am not only helping a friend but also helping the young once to be responsible for their actions, for abortion is not the answer to avoid the responsibility when they got pregnant at the early age.

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