It is her decision after all

One of the latest news in showbiz now is about the celebrity who chooses to change her gender preference, changed her name, and her physical appearance.  I must admit I am shocked and disturbed by that sudden change.  I never thought that she would go that far.  I mean she can act like a man and dress like a man if that what makes her happy and comfortable with, but the change your physical appearance is absurd.  It is like showing that you do not like what is God is given to you.  Well, this is not new in showbiz and in the world today because of modern technology, but to Catholic believers, this is shocking and difficult to accept and understand.

There are negative and positive comments about this issue lately.  Some are helpful and hurtful, but who cares?  If a person is happy with her decision and contended with it, that is all that matters.  This certain celebrity will be bashed and judged by some people, but soon it will die naturally as the people will slowly accept and understand her, especially her family, relative, and friends.  It is her decision after all, and people should respect that because she deserves to be respected whatever her preferences will be.  Hopefully, she will not regret this in the future.

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I do not think it is a good idea

Yesterday at the birthday celebration of the nephew, the cousin and I are having a little conversation and our topic is getting married and having a baby.  She told me that I should get married soon because I am not getting any younger.  Oh yeah, here we go again.  She said that I should double my time this year because at my age, bearing a child is difficult.  If I am not fortunate enough to walk down aisle, at least I have a baby to take good care of me when I get old.  Getting married is not longer an issue, the main goal is to have a child.

I respected the cousin’s points of view, but thinking it thoroughly I do not think it is a good idea.  I still believe that if I were to have a child, at least under the context of married.  I do not like to think that the reason of having a child is to have someone to be with me when I am bed ridden already.  I think it is so unfair for the child.  It is still best to have the child out of love and with the blessings of God through marriage.  I’d rather grow old alone that taking the cousin’s suggestions.  If I am blessed to get married and have a child, it would be a dream come true.  I am hoping, praying and wishing always.  Hopefully sooner.

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Hopefully she made the right decision

I know this is a bit late post, but still I wanted to say my opinion about the wedding of the local actress and the politician. Their love story faces many challenges, trials and difficulties but they stayed strong and proved to their love ones that their love is pure and true. Their big day happens two weeks ago. I must say she is one happy bride as well as the groom. It has been the talked of town if the parents of the bride will come and witness the important event on their daughter’s life. Though they are expecting the parents of the bride won’t come, still they are hoping that they will change their mind. Unfortunately, the parents did not arrive.

Though she is smiling on her wedding day, I can tell by looking at her eyes that she is sad. Sad because her parents did not able to witness and walk her down the aisle wearing the wedding dress. Though her parents did not able to come, still they are able to extend their message to the newlyweds. The message was read by the bride’s sister. It was a very nice and meaningful that made the bride cried. I guess their love is really pure and true. They have won the battle and now they are one. I really hope that she made the right decision. Good luck to them!

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