Find Your Happiness

In life all are temporary unless we want it to be permanent.  In making the relationship permanent, it takes lots of patience, understanding, love, faith and trust.  There are times that a relationship is test by problems and temptation.  It is the best test on how the couple are going to comfort each other and helping each other to make the relationship stronger. But if it not for us to have, no matter how much we wanted to stay together, there are instances that other party is giving up.  And some are being unfaithful because of the lack of communication.

Every time a relationship ends, I always heard each party saying I wish you find your happiness.  I just do not understand why they can’t give that happiness to someone they love. How can a person find their happiness when the happiness they wanted is the one who caused those tears and pain?  It is not easy to achieve the happiness we want because it will take lots of tears and painful experiences.  Those experiences that will make us wiser person to start a better approach in life.  For sure we will find the happiness that someone wants us to find without them on our side.  Happiness does come after we are able to surpass the painful and hurtful part in our life.  Be patience because happiness is there waiting for us also, with or without them.

 

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Why Bothered?

We know for a fact that it is very hard to please everybody because no matter what we do whether it is good or not, people always something not so nice to say.  Side comments that would somehow hurt our feelings and make us feel bad for ourselves.  I do not know the reason why but we do mind what others might say.  We sometimes hesitant to do what we wanted to do because we are bothered by the ‘what if’ thought.  And sometimes we hold back to show someone that we care and we are sincere of what we are doing because we are bothered of the thought that we didn’t mean it.  These are the major points why we did not able to do things that we wanted to do.  And we end up having some regrets.

We human have the freedom to do what we wanted to do and do the things we want without harming others.  We are doing it for ourselves not for others and so do not bother of others side comments because some people do not want to see others happy.  Sad to say but there are people who find it hard to accept the achievements of others. We tend to forget that we should do things for ourselves and to our family not for others.  If you think that it makes you happy, do not let that chance slipped away.  Do it now and make it happen.

 

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